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If you watch Spanish-language movies, listen to Spanish songs, or follow dramatic conversations online, you may hear someone say:
English subtitles often translate this expression as:
- Forgive me!
- Please forgive me.
- I’m sorry.
However, you may also see the similar-looking forms perdona and perdón.
This creates several questions for beginners:
- What exactly does perdóname mean?
- Why does it contain me?
- What is the difference between perdona and perdóname?
- Why does perdóname have an accent mark?
- Can you use it for a small accident?
- Is it stronger than lo siento?
In this article, we will break the expression into its grammatical parts and learn how native speakers use it in real situations.
I know that perdóname is connected with apologizing.
Does it simply mean “I’m sorry”?
It can be translated as “I’m sorry,” but its grammatical meaning is more direct.
Perdóname literally asks the listener: “Forgive me.”
- 1 What Does Perdóname Mean in English?
- 2 How to Pronounce Perdóname
- 3 How Is Perdóname Formed?
- 4 What Does Perdona Mean?
- 5 Perdona vs. Perdóname: What Is the Difference?
- 6 Perdón vs. Perdona vs. Perdóname
- 7 When Should You Use Perdóname?
- 8 Is Perdóname Stronger Than Lo Siento?
- 9 Can Perdóname Be Used for Small Mistakes?
- 10 Can Perdóname Mean “Excuse Me”?
- 11 Common Sentence Patterns with Perdóname
- 12 Perdóname, Perdóneme, Perdonadme, and Perdónenme
- 13 Positive and Negative Commands
- 14 Natural Conversation Examples with Perdóname
- 15 How to Make Perdóname Sound More Sincere
- 16 Common Mistakes with Perdóname
- 16.1 Mistake 1: Writing Perdoname Without an Accent in the Tú Form
- 16.2 Mistake 2: Writing Perdona Me as Two Words
- 16.3 Mistake 3: Confusing Perdóname with Perdona
- 16.4 Mistake 4: Using the Tú Form with an Usted Listener
- 16.5 Mistake 5: Thinking Perdóname Literally Means “I Am Sorry”
- 16.6 Mistake 6: Assuming the Listener Must Accept the Apology
- 16.7 Mistake 7: Using It as a Universal “Excuse Me”
- 17 The Origin of Perdonar and Perdóname
- 18 Frequently Asked Questions About Perdóname
- 18.1 What does perdóname mean in English?
- 18.2 What is the difference between perdona and perdóname?
- 18.3 What is the difference between perdón and perdóname?
- 18.4 Why does perdóname have an accent mark?
- 18.5 Is perdoname without an accent always incorrect?
- 18.6 Is perdóname formal or informal?
- 18.7 How do you say forgive me to several people?
- 18.8 Is perdóname stronger than lo siento?
- 18.9 Can I use perdóname after a small mistake?
- 18.10 Can I say lo siento and perdóname together?
- 19 Perdóname Meaning: Summary
- 20 Related Guide
What Does Perdóname Mean in English?
Perdóname means:
Please forgive me.
I’m sorry.
Pardon me for what I did.
Its most direct English translation is “forgive me.”
Unlike a general apology word, perdóname directly asks another person to forgive the speaker.
I recognize that I have done something wrong, and I am asking you to release me from that offense.
It can be used for emotional mistakes, broken trust, lies, hurtful words, forgotten promises, and other situations in which the speaker wants personal forgiveness.
Perdóname. No quería hacerte daño.
Forgive me. I didn’t want to hurt you.
Perdóname por haberte mentido.
Forgive me for lying to you.
Por favor, perdóname.
Please forgive me.
What is the easiest way to remember it?
Remember the two parts:
perdona means “forgive,” and me means “me.”
Therefore, perdona + me = perdóname, “forgive me.”
How to Pronounce Perdóname
Perdóname is pronounced approximately:
IPA: /peɾˈðoname/
Syllables: per-dó-na-me
Stressed syllable: dó
The written accent over the ó shows that the stress falls on dó.
Do not pronounce it as:
or
PER-do-na-me
The natural stress is:
per-DÓ-na-me
The Spanish r is normally a single tap in this word. It is not the strong rolled sound represented by rr.
Why does perdóname have an accent mark when perdona does not?
Adding me makes the word longer, but the original stress remains on the same syllable.
The resulting word is stressed on the third syllable from the end, so Spanish spelling rules require an accent mark: perdóname.
How Is Perdóname Formed?
Perdóname consists of two grammatical elements:
The affirmative tú command of perdonar: “forgive”
me
The object pronoun meaning “me”
perdona + me → perdóname
Forgive me
Perdonar is the infinitive meaning “to forgive.”
To tell one person whom you address as tú to forgive, Spanish uses the affirmative command:
↓
perdona — forgive
↓
perdóname — forgive me
In an affirmative Spanish command, an unstressed object pronoun such as me is attached to the end of the verb.
That is why perdóname is written as one word.
Is perdóname technically a command?
Grammatically, yes. It uses the affirmative command form.
In real communication, however, it usually functions as a request or plea rather than an aggressive order.
What Does the Me in Perdóname Mean?
The pronoun me refers to the speaker.
Perdóname.
Forgive me.
The person being addressed is understood as you.
The full underlying relationship is:
Spanish does not normally include the subject pronoun tú because the form perdona already shows whom the speaker is addressing.
You could add tú for contrast or emphasis, but it is not normally necessary.
Tú perdóname; los demás pueden pensar lo que quieran.
You forgive me; the others can think whatever they want.
Is me the person doing the forgiving?
No. The listener is being asked to forgive.
Me identifies the person who wants to receive forgiveness: the speaker.
What Does Perdona Mean?
Perdona is the affirmative command form used with one person addressed as tú.
Depending on context, it can mean:
Excuse me.
Sorry.
Pardon me.
Wait a moment.
I beg your pardon.
Unlike perdóname, the form perdona does not explicitly state whom the listener should forgive.
Sometimes the missing object is obvious from context.
Perdona, no quería molestarte.
Sorry, I didn’t want to bother you.
In this sentence, English naturally uses “sorry,” although the Spanish form is grammatically related to “forgive.”
Perdona can also introduce a question or interruption:
Perdona, ¿sabes dónde está el banco?
Excuse me, do you know where the bank is?
Perdona que te interrumpa.
Sorry to interrupt you.
If perdona does not contain me, can it still mean “forgive me”?
Yes, when the context makes the speaker’s meaning obvious.
However, perdóname is more explicit and personal because it directly says “forgive me.”
Perdona vs. Perdóname: What Is the Difference?
The grammatical difference is simple:
Forgive, excuse me, or pardon the interruption.
The person or thing being forgiven may be understood from context.
Perdóname
Forgive me.
The speaker explicitly asks for personal forgiveness.
The practical difference is that perdona has a wider range of everyday courtesy uses.
Perdóname is more clearly directed at repairing a personal offense.
| Situation | More natural form | Reason |
|---|---|---|
| Asking a stranger for directions | Perdona or perdone | You are politely getting attention |
| Interrupting a friend briefly | Perdona | A routine social interruption |
| Admitting that you lied | Perdóname | You directly ask the person to forgive you |
| Apologizing for hurtful words | Perdóname | The offense is personal and emotional |
| Correcting yourself during speech | Perdona | It works like “sorry” or “wait” |
Does that mean perdóname is always more serious?
It is usually more personal, but not automatically more dramatic.
Friends can also say perdóname playfully after a small mistake. Tone and context still matter.
Example: Asking a Question
Perdona, ¿qué hora es?
Excuse me, what time is it?
Perdona is natural because the speaker is requesting attention, not forgiveness for a serious personal offense.
The version below would usually sound unnecessarily personal:
¿Perdóname, qué hora es?
A learner should normally avoid perdóname for this function.
Why is perdóname strange when asking the time?
Because “forgive me personally” is stronger than the situation requires.
You only need to excuse a brief interruption, so perdona, perdone, or disculpe is more natural.
Example: A Personal Betrayal
Sé que te fallé. Perdóname.
I know I let you down. Forgive me.
Here, perdóname is appropriate because the speaker has personally hurt the listener.
The speaker is not merely acknowledging an interruption. The speaker is asking the listener to release a real offense.
Could I say only perdona in that situation?
You could, especially if the object is understood.
However, perdóname places clearer emphasis on “me” and often sounds more personally accountable.
Perdón vs. Perdona vs. Perdóname
These three forms come from the same word family, but they do not have the same grammatical role.
| Form | Grammar | Basic meaning | Typical use |
|---|---|---|---|
| perdón | Noun used as a courtesy formula | Pardon; forgiveness; sorry | Small mistakes, interruptions, asking for repetition |
| perdona | Affirmative tú command | Forgive; excuse me | Informal direct address, questions, interruptions, apologies |
| perdóname | Tú command + me | Forgive me | Personal apologies and requests for forgiveness |
Sorry. / Pardon?
Perdona.
Excuse me. / Forgive this interruption.
Perdóname.
Forgive me.
Is perdón just a shorter version of perdóname?
No. Perdón is a noun, while perdóname is a verb command with a pronoun.
They can perform similar social functions, but their grammatical structures are different.
When Should You Use Perdóname?
1. When You Hurt Someone’s Feelings
Perdóname por lo que dije. Estaba enfadado y fui injusto.
Forgive me for what I said. I was angry, and I was unfair.
The speaker recognizes that the words caused personal harm.
2. When You Break Someone’s Trust
No debí contárselo a nadie. Perdóname.
I shouldn’t have told anyone. Forgive me.
This is more than a minor social inconvenience. The speaker is asking to repair a damaged relationship.
3. When You Lie
Perdóname por mentirte.
Forgive me for lying to you.
4. When You Forget Something Important
Perdóname por olvidar nuestro aniversario.
Forgive me for forgetting our anniversary.
5. When You Cannot Fulfill a Promise
Prometí que estaría allí. Perdóname por no haber ido.
I promised I would be there. Forgive me for not going.
6. When You Want to Reconcile
Sé que cometí muchos errores, pero quiero arreglar las cosas. Perdóname.
I know I made many mistakes, but I want to make things right. Forgive me.
Is perdóname mainly used between romantic partners?
No. You can use it with friends, family members, colleagues, or anyone whom you address as tú.
It appears often in romantic scenes because those situations frequently involve emotional forgiveness.
Is Perdóname Stronger Than Lo Siento?
Perdóname and lo siento focus on different parts of an apology.
I regret what happened.
The focus is on the speaker’s sorrow, regret, or sympathy.
Perdóname
Forgive me.
The focus is on asking the listener for forgiveness.
Neither expression is automatically stronger in every situation.
However, perdóname can sound more direct and personal because it explicitly asks the listener to forgive the speaker.
Lo siento por lo que hice.
I’m sorry for what I did.
Perdóname por lo que hice.
Forgive me for what I did.
The first sentence communicates regret.
The second sentence asks the harmed person to take an additional step: to forgive.
Should I always use perdóname for a sincere apology?
Not necessarily.
A sincere apology can use lo siento, perdóname, or both. What matters is whether you acknowledge the harm and take responsibility.
Combining Lo Siento and Perdóname
The two expressions are often combined because they perform complementary functions.
Lo siento mucho. Perdóname.
I’m very sorry. Forgive me.
Lo siento por haberte hablado así. Por favor, perdóname.
I’m sorry for speaking to you that way. Please forgive me.
The first part expresses regret. The second part requests forgiveness.
This is how I feel about what happened.
Perdóname
This is what I am asking you to do.
If I say perdóname, does the other person have to forgive me?
No. It is a request, not a guarantee.
The listener may need time, may ask for an explanation, or may decide not to forgive immediately.
Can Perdóname Be Used for Small Mistakes?
Yes, especially between people who know each other.
Perdóname, olvidé traerte el libro.
Sorry, I forgot to bring you the book.
Perdóname, te llamé por error.
Sorry, I called you by mistake.
In these cases, perdóname does not necessarily sound intensely dramatic. Tone can make it light and conversational.
However, for a very small physical accident involving a stranger, a quick perdón may be more natural.
Perdón.
Sorry.
You forget something you promised a friend:
Perdóname, se me olvidó.
Forgive me; I forgot.
Would perdóname sound too dramatic after stepping on someone’s foot?
It might sound more personal than necessary, especially with a stranger.
A quick perdón or disculpe usually fits that situation better.
Can Perdóname Mean “Excuse Me”?
English “excuse me” has several functions.
When “excuse me” means “forgive me for what I did,” perdóname may be appropriate.
Perdóname por hablarte de esa manera.
Excuse me for speaking to you that way.
Forgive me for speaking to you that way.
When “excuse me” is only used to attract a stranger’s attention, use another form.
Perdona, ¿puedo preguntarte algo?
Excuse me, can I ask you something?
Respectfully:
Perdone, ¿me puede ayudar?
Excuse me, can you help me?
Another respectful option:
Disculpe, ¿dónde está la salida?
Excuse me, where is the exit?
So should I avoid perdóname when asking strangers for help?
As a beginner, yes.
Use perdone or disculpe. They match respectful address and do not imply a personal offense.
Common Sentence Patterns with Perdóname
1. Perdóname por + Noun
Use por to state the reason for the apology.
Perdóname por el retraso.
Forgive me for the delay.
Perdóname por mi comportamiento.
Forgive me for my behavior.
Perdóname por la confusión.
Forgive me for the confusion.
2. Perdóname por + Infinitive
Use an infinitive to identify the action.
Perdóname por llegar tarde.
Forgive me for arriving late.
Perdóname por interrumpirte.
Forgive me for interrupting you.
Perdóname por no llamarte.
Forgive me for not calling you.
3. Perdóname por Haber + Past Participle
This structure clearly refers to an action completed before the apology.
Perdóname por haberte mentido.
Forgive me for having lied to you.
Perdóname por haber reaccionado así.
Forgive me for reacting that way.
English usually uses a simpler translation such as “for lying” or “for reacting,” even though Spanish uses the perfect infinitive.
What is the difference between por mentirte and por haberte mentido?
Both can refer to the lie.
Por haberte mentido presents it more explicitly as a completed earlier action, while por mentirte is simpler and very common.
4. Perdóname que + Subjunctive
Spanish can use perdóname que before a clause, especially when apologizing for saying or doing something.
Perdóname que te lo diga, pero estás equivocado.
Forgive me for saying this, but you are mistaken.
Perdóname que insista, pero necesito una respuesta.
Forgive me for insisting, but I need an answer.
The verb after que commonly appears in the subjunctive because the clause is presented as the action for which permission or forgiveness is requested.
Is perdóname que te lo diga a serious apology?
Not necessarily.
It often softens a criticism or uncomfortable comment, much like “forgive me for saying so” in English.
5. Perdóname, pero…
This structure introduces disagreement, refusal, or correction.
Perdóname, pero no estoy de acuerdo.
Forgive me, but I do not agree.
Perdóname, pero eso no es verdad.
Excuse me, but that is not true.
Here, perdóname may function less as an admission of wrongdoing and more as a politeness strategy before saying something potentially uncomfortable.
6. Perdóname si…
Perdóname si te ofendí.
Forgive me if I offended you.
Perdóname si parezco impaciente.
Forgive me if I seem impatient.
Be careful with this structure in serious apologies. In both English and Spanish, an apology framed only as “if I offended you” may sound as though the speaker is unsure whether any harm occurred.
A clearer apology may be:
Perdóname por haberte ofendido.
Forgive me for offending you.
Can perdóname si… make my apology sound less sincere?
It can when the harm is already obvious.
If you know what you did, naming the action directly with por usually shows clearer responsibility.
Perdóname, Perdóneme, Perdonadme, and Perdónenme
The form changes according to the person or people being addressed.
| Form | Listener | Meaning | Typical region or register |
|---|---|---|---|
| perdóname | Tú | Forgive me | Informal singular |
| perdoname | Vos | Forgive me | Voseo regions |
| perdóneme | Usted | Forgive me | Formal or respectful singular |
| perdonadme | Vosotros | Forgive me | Informal plural, mainly Spain |
| perdónenme | Ustedes | Forgive me | Plural address |
Perdóneme: Formal or Respectful Singular
Perdóneme, señora. No fue mi intención.
Forgive me, ma’am. It was not my intention.
Perdóneme uses the usted command perdone plus me.
Can I say perdóname to my boss?
That depends on whether you normally use tú or usted with your boss.
If the relationship requires usted, use perdóneme.
Perdonadme: Informal Plural in Spain
Perdonadme por llegar tarde.
Forgive me for arriving late.
This form addresses multiple people as vosotros or vosotras.
Perdónenme: Plural Ustedes Form
Perdónenme. Cometí un error.
Forgive me. I made a mistake.
This form addresses a group as ustedes.
It is used throughout Latin America for plural address and can also serve as respectful plural address in Spain.
If I am apologizing to three friends in Mexico, should I say perdonadme?
No. In Mexico, address the group as ustedes and say perdónenme.
Perdonadme belongs to the vosotros system associated mainly with Spain.
Perdoname Without an Accent in Voseo
In regions that use vos, the affirmative command of perdonar is:
forgive
When me is attached, the form is:
forgive me
In this voseo form, the stress naturally falls on na:
per-do-NA-me
Because it is a word stressed on the next-to-last syllable and ends in a vowel, it does not require a written accent.
This creates an important distinction:
Tú form: per-DÓ-na-me
perdoname
Vos form: per-do-NA-me
However, many accentless examples online are simply informal typing by people who have omitted the accent mark. Context is therefore important.
Does that mean perdoname without an accent is sometimes correct?
Yes, when it represents the vos command.
When addressing someone as tú, the standard spelling is perdóname with an accent.
Positive and Negative Commands
In an affirmative command, the pronoun is attached to the end:
Forgive me.
In a negative command, the pronoun normally goes before the verb:
Do not forgive me.
Compare:
Perdóname y dame otra oportunidad.
Forgive me and give me another chance.
No me perdones solo porque te lo pido.
Do not forgive me only because I ask you to.
A common beginner error is to keep the pronoun attached in a negative command.
Negative: No me perdones.
Why does the negative form use perdones instead of perdona?
Negative tú commands use the present subjunctive form.
Therefore, perdona becomes no perdones, and the pronoun appears before it: no me perdones.
Natural Conversation Examples with Perdóname
A Forgotten Promise
You said you would call me.
B: Lo sé. Perdóname. Tuve un día terrible y se me olvidó.
I know. Forgive me. I had a terrible day, and I forgot.
A Hurtful Comment
What you said hurt me a lot.
B: Tienes razón. Fue cruel. Perdóname.
You’re right. It was cruel. Forgive me.
A Small Mistake Between Friends
Where is my coffee?
B: ¡Perdóname! Pensé que era el mío y me lo bebí.
Sorry! I thought it was mine, and I drank it.
Softening a Disagreement
This plan cannot fail.
B: Perdóname, pero creo que estás siendo demasiado optimista.
Forgive me, but I think you are being too optimistic.
Asking for Another Chance
I no longer know whether I can trust you.
B: Lo entiendo. Perdóname y dame la oportunidad de demostrarte que puedo cambiar.
I understand. Forgive me and give me the chance to show you that I can change.
Why does perdóname sound very dramatic in some movies but casual in other conversations?
The word itself asks for forgiveness, but tone determines the emotional weight.
A whispered perdóname after betrayal and a laughing ¡perdóname! after drinking someone’s coffee do not carry the same seriousness.
How to Make Perdóname Sound More Sincere
A sincere apology normally needs more than the word perdóname.
A useful structure is:
Lo siento.
2. Name the action
No debí mentirte.
3. Recognize the effect
Sé que dañé tu confianza.
4. Request forgiveness
Perdóname.
5. Offer repair or change
Voy a hacer todo lo posible para arreglarlo.
A complete apology might be:
Lo siento. No debí mentirte. Sé que dañé tu confianza y entiendo que estés enfadado. Perdóname. Voy a hacer todo lo posible para reparar el daño.
I’m sorry. I should not have lied to you. I know I damaged your trust, and I understand that you are angry. Forgive me. I am going to do everything possible to repair the harm.
The word perdóname asks for forgiveness, but the surrounding language demonstrates responsibility.
Can repeating perdóname make the apology more sincere?
It can add emotion, but repetition alone does not prove sincerity.
Acknowledging the exact harm and changing your behavior usually communicates more than saying the word many times.
Common Mistakes with Perdóname
Mistake 1: Writing Perdoname Without an Accent in the Tú Form
Incorrect for the standard tú form: perdoname
The accent mark is required because the stress falls on dó.
Remember that perdoname can be a valid voseo form, but beginners using tú should write perdóname.
Mistake 2: Writing Perdona Me as Two Words
Correct: perdóname
The pronoun attaches to an affirmative command.
Mistake 3: Confusing Perdóname with Perdona
Use perdona for many quick interruptions and courtesy uses.
Use perdóname when explicitly asking the listener to forgive you.
Mistake 4: Using the Tú Form with an Usted Listener
Usted: perdóneme
Mistake 5: Thinking Perdóname Literally Means “I Am Sorry”
“I’m sorry” is often a natural translation, but the grammatical meaning is “forgive me.”
This distinction explains why the expression may sound more direct than a simple statement of regret.
Mistake 6: Assuming the Listener Must Accept the Apology
Perdóname requests forgiveness. It does not create an obligation for the listener to forgive immediately.
Mistake 7: Using It as a Universal “Excuse Me”
Do not automatically use perdóname to ask directions, pass through a crowd, or attract a shop employee’s attention.
Depending on the situation, use:
perdona
perdone
disculpa
disculpe
What is the biggest beginner mistake?
Treating perdón, perdona, and perdóname as three spellings of the same expression.
They belong to the same family, but their grammar and most natural situations differ.
The Origin of Perdonar and Perdóname
Perdóname comes from the verb perdonar.
Perdonar developed from Late Latin perdonāre.
The Latin form contains:
completely or thoroughly
+
donāre
to give
↓
perdonar
to grant complete release from a debt, fault, or offense
This origin matches the core idea of forgiveness:
↓
The harmed person chooses to release or remit that offense.
↓
The person is forgiven.
Therefore, perdóname is not merely a statement that the speaker feels bad.
It asks the harmed person to give the speaker release from the offense.
Does the origin explain why perdóname can feel stronger than a quick “sorry”?
Yes.
The expression asks the other person to release an offense, so it naturally points toward the relationship between the speaker and listener.
Frequently Asked Questions About Perdóname
What does perdóname mean in English?
Perdóname most directly means “forgive me.” Depending on context, it can also be translated as “please forgive me,” “I’m sorry,” or “pardon me for what I did.”
What is the difference between perdona and perdóname?
Perdona means “forgive” or “excuse me” and can introduce a question, interruption, or apology. Perdóname explicitly means “forgive me” and is more directly focused on personal forgiveness.
What is the difference between perdón and perdóname?
Perdón is a noun meaning forgiveness or pardon and is commonly used as a short formula meaning “sorry,” “excuse me,” or “pardon?” Perdóname is a verb command plus a pronoun meaning “forgive me.”
Why does perdóname have an accent mark?
The stress remains on the syllable dó after me is attached. The resulting word is stressed on the third syllable from the end, so it requires a written accent.
Is perdoname without an accent always incorrect?
No. Perdoname without an accent can be the correct vos command form in voseo regions. For the standard tú form, write perdóname.
Is perdóname formal or informal?
Perdóname addresses one person as tú, so it is grammatically informal. The respectful usted form is perdóneme.
How do you say forgive me to several people?
Use perdonadme with vosotros, mainly in Spain. Use perdónenme with ustedes.
Is perdóname stronger than lo siento?
They have different focuses. Lo siento expresses regret or sorrow, while perdóname directly asks the listener for forgiveness. The second can therefore sound more personal, but context determines the strength.
Can I use perdóname after a small mistake?
Yes, especially with someone you know. For a tiny accident involving a stranger, a brief perdón or disculpe may be more natural.
Can I say lo siento and perdóname together?
Yes. Lo siento. Perdóname. combines an expression of regret with a request for forgiveness.
Perdón, Perdona, or Perdóname?
Adding “me” changes how personal and direct the apology feels — walk through the situation.
Excuse me. / Forgive this interruption. — the tú command with no “me” attached.
Forgive me. — perdona + me: a direct, personal appeal to that specific person.
Perdóneme, señora. — perdone (usted command) + me: formal, personal appeal.
A noun, not a verb command — works alone, like “sorry” or “pardon.”
※ The written accent on perdóname and perdóneme is not optional — it marks where the stress falls once “me” is attached to the command.
Perdóname Meaning: Summary
● It consists of perdona, the affirmative tú command of perdonar, plus me.
● It is written as one word because object pronouns attach to affirmative commands.
● The accent mark is required in the tú form: perdóname.
● Perdona has wider uses, including “excuse me” before a question or interruption.
● Perdóname explicitly asks for personal forgiveness.
● Use perdóneme with usted.
● Use perdonadme with vosotros and perdónenme with ustedes.
● In voseo, perdoname without an accent can be correct.
● Lo siento expresses regret; perdóname requests forgiveness.
● A sincere apology should also identify the harm, accept responsibility, and offer repair.
To remember the difference, do not translate all three forms as simply “sorry.”
Perdón is a quick request for pardon, perdona means “forgive” or “excuse me,” and perdóname directly means “forgive me.”
The small pronoun me makes the apology personal.
Lo Siento vs. Perdón vs. Disculpa: How to Say “Sorry” in Spanish
Real Academia Española: perdonar
Real Academia Española: perdón
Real Academia Española: Accentuation of verbal forms with attached pronouns
Related Guide
For the complete overview of Spanish apologies — which word to use, how formal it sounds, and how to answer when someone apologizes to you — see the main guide: How to Say Sorry in Spanish.
